there are people who work hard to create a routine, they get used to it and they become good at it. it takes long time and lots of effort.
and than this routine becomes boring.
but since the person did “all the right things”, the change should come from outside, because person that does “nothing wrong” expect reward for proper behavior.
but reward is not coming.
person becomes angry at random points since “the world” is not right. usually it is the family who suffers.
and unless somebody else takes charge and makes a change, things are going bad.
rarely person finds the courage to admit and makes the change.
happens everywhere, from sex to work place.
interesting that this is very russian, approved by high culture pattern of behavior, and also very feminine;
– “do not ask, do not request. they will come and do everything themselves” – bulgakov
– you moral credo should be “do not live by a lie” – solzhenicyn
etc. you know the hero, that knows self worth and expects recognition.
like “i will do my best and give up control over my future to you (and in response you will take good care of me)” – sounds like a wedding to you ?
and when you immigrate, bugs in your cross the border with you.
and so you find people listening to bards and watching bergman.
the complex soul of teenage girl. it’s beautiful, but very tiring.
btw, the problem that russian low culture finds an opposition with high culture by being extra directed outside,
still not looking at the problem, but consistently blaming others. requesting “russia is for russians” etc. nazbolls. you know.
and there are people who “make stuff happen”.
this guy who can build brand from loosing business,
or guy who can fix super complex lab equipment using a nail.
or win an election in a week while traveling with drunkards on ship.
also very “russian”.
in the words from “team america” “
Pussies don’t like dicks, because pussies get fucked by dicks. But dicks also fuck assholes: assholes that just want to shit on everything. Pussies may think they can deal with assholes their way. But the only thing that can fuck an asshole is a dick, with some balls. The problem with dicks is: they fuck too much or fuck when it isn’t appropriate – and it takes a pussy to show them that. But sometimes, pussies can be so full of shit that they become assholes themselves… because pussies are an inch and half away from ass holes. I don’t know much about this crazy, crazy world, but I do know this: If you don’t let us fuck this asshole, we’re going to have our dicks and pussies all covered in shit!